“I’ve helped so many patients with serious conditions, but what impact have I really had on the quality of their lives?”
The above quote was a realization expressed by a physician client of mine. We sometimes assume responsibility for things that are outside our control rather than focusing on and valuing what we can control.
In Stoicism, one technique I use with clients to help focus their perspective is the metaphor of the Stoic Archer.
The highly skilled Stoic archer focuses on:
Assuming a relaxed stance…
Nocking the arrow…
Gripping the bow correctly…
Drawing the bowstring back…
Aim…
Release…
Follow through.
Once the follow through is complete, the Stoic Archer has completed all that he can control and doesn’t invest in that which he can’t control.
What can’t he control?
♦ If he were hunting, the target might have gotten spooked and moved prior to the arrow meeting its mark.
♦ There could be a gust of wind that alters the arrow’s trajectory.
Regardless, the Stoic Archer does not concern himself with the outcome. Rather, he finds meaning and purpose in doing his part to the best of his ability – being his best archer every time. The rest is not up to him.
If he hits the target, he allows himself a sense of satisfaction. If he misses, he’s still satisfied – he did his best in accordance with his values.
This is also true for healthcare practitioners and other professionals. When you provide the best care within the scope of your area of control, you’ve done all that can be done…the outcome doesn’t belong to you.
After all:
♦ The patient might not follow through with their recommended treatment.
♦ There could be medical complications that hinder a favorable outcome.
♦ The patient could fall under the care of less competent practitioners.
The possible outcomes are nearly endless and are outside of your control.
Rather than focusing on the outcome, be mindful of what you do as a professional. Feel pride and gain satisfaction from the care that you provide.
Do your best (as a fallible human) and don’t take responsibility for what comes after that.
The very best to you.