Divorce

Don’t go through divorce alone.

Three years ago, Rebecca* discovered that her husband Marty* was having an affair with a coworker. Although she was deeply hurt by the discovery, Rebecca decided she wanted to work things out.

Marty agreed to work on their relationship, and they began seeing a marriage counselor. Throughout the marriage counseling process, Marty came across as insincere. Claiming to be committed during their sessions, Marty did nothing at home to improve things with Rebecca.

Over the next three years the relationship worsened. Marty became increasingly distant, sometimes even treating Rebecca with contempt. Rebecca suspected that he was still carrying on the affair. As a result, she was always anxious, cried every day, and slept poorly every night.

Rebecca knew the relationship was at an impasse…

She didn’t feel any better when she told Marty she wanted a divorce, as he seemed pleased with her decision. Rebecca realized that Marty had manipulated the situation. He’d intended to push her to file for the divorce, so he could take the victim position with Rebecca as the villain. Rebecca was angry and resentful while trying to navigate the contentious divorce.

Rebecca needed help!

Thankfully, she contacted us at Stoa Life. We began our work by validating Rebecca’s feelings of grief, anger, and betrayal. But we didn’t stop there. We also worked on the beliefs and behaviors that were holding Rebecca back.

Rebecca soon realized that she had not been prioritizing herself. Instead, she’d been concerned about avoiding conflict and worrying about the judgment of others.

As she learned and applied the Stoa Life techniques, she felt increasingly calmer…

She took stock of her attributes and abilities and experienced more self-confidence.

Rebecca decided she didn’t care if she seemed like the villain, as it was more important for her to advocate strongly for herself.

Rebecca was ready to move on with her life.

Divorce is hard to navigate alone.

Whether divorce was your decision or imposed on you, it is a profoundly life-changing event. When you entered your marriage, you weren’t planning to get divorced. Instead, you envisioned a lifetime of contented marriage. In a moment, those plans evaporated. That experience is disorienting and painful.

At Stoa Life, we’re here to help you through this challenging process. For us, it’s not just about support; we’ll give you the tools you need to navigate the divorce effectively and calmly. You’ll enhance your ability to make clear decisions and ensure an optimal life trajectory.

If you’re going through a divorce, don’t wait. Give us a call. We can have a 20-minute free consultation where we can learn more details about your situation and describe how our system can help.

Contact us to schedule your free consultation at (863) 450-6333.